{"id":10053,"date":"2022-11-24T16:58:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-24T15:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindspring.bureauram.dev\/?page_id=10053"},"modified":"2024-01-24T17:21:49","modified_gmt":"2024-01-24T16:21:49","slug":"fear-of-abandonment","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/fear-of-abandonment\/","title":{"rendered":"Therapy for fear of abandonment"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"10053\" class=\"elementor elementor-10053 elementor-9125\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fc614db elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"fc614db\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" 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data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<nav  aria-label=\"breadcrumb\"><ol class=\"breadcrumb\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BreadcrumbList\"><li class=\"breadcrumb-item active\" aria-current=\"page\" itemprop=\"itemListElement\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ListItem\"><span itemprop=\"name\">Home<\/span><meta itemprop=\"position\" content=\"1\"><\/li><\/ol><\/nav>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bffe3ea elementor-reverse-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bffe3ea\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-wider\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-49e1cdb\" data-id=\"49e1cdb\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bd717ff elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bd717ff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u201cYou CAN overcome fear of abandonment\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-140ae94 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"140ae94\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>Related information<\/h3><ul><li><a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/therapy-for-fear-of-commitment\/\">Fear of commitment<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/therapy-coaching\/hypnotherapy\/\">Hypnotherapy<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/therapy-coaching\/emdr-therapy\/\">EMDR therapy<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/nlp\/\">NLP<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/practical-information\/\">Practical information<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-38a2359\" data-id=\"38a2359\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2934c99 elementor-widget 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class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>What is fear of abandonment?<\/b><\/p><p>Fear of abandonment is the fear that someone important to you will leave you, or the fear that something will happen to him or her. The fear is often not realistic, but keeps popping back up. For example, when your partner goes out, comes home late or is in contact with someone else, or when you have to go out by yourself. You may be jealous and tend to check on the other person all the time. You experience fear or even panic when the other person leaves the house and you want to be together as much as possible. Or you continuously seek the attention and approval of the other. These and other symptoms of fear of abandonment take much energy and can put a lot of stress on your relationship. Fortunately, this can be dealt with.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d64f36 elementor-align-left elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"7d64f36\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-lg\" href=\"#\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Make an appointment for fear of abandonment therapy<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2529eeb elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2529eeb\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-68da7ca\" data-id=\"68da7ca\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ab0f650 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ab0f650\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Origins of fear of abandonment<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-335ba5a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"335ba5a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Fear of abandonment generally originates from experiences in your youth or childhood. These may be events where somebody truly left, such as your parents\u2019 divorce or the death of a parent. But sometimes a situation occurred where you felt abandoned, like moments when you were home alone, did not receive attention, had to go to school for the first time or spent time in the hospital. A child\u2019s fear of abandonment usually disappears while growing up. Sometimes, however, the belief may take root that you are not worthwhile or that all important people will leave you. In those instances fear of abandonment can manifest during adulthood in your relationships, friendships or other social interactions.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c3121d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9c3121d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Overcoming fear of abandonment<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c153de7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c153de7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin-top: 0.85em; margin-bottom: 0.85em; border: 0px transparent; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-family: Lato, HelveticaNeue, 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; vertical-align: baseline; color: #34495e; line-height: 27px !important;\">Mindspring is very experienced resolving fear of abandonment. Rather than just the symptoms, the root causes are dealt with extensively. We use modern and effective therapeutical methods such as\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/therapy-coaching\/hypnotherapy\/\">hypnotherapy<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/therapy-coaching\/emdr-therapy\/\">EMDR therapy<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/en\/nlp\/\">NLP<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2f8b3c5 elementor-align-left elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"2f8b3c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-lg\" href=\"#\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Make an appointment for fear of abandonment therapy<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0aedbe6\" data-id=\"0aedbe6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f0383c6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"f0383c6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"400\" src=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/jos-van-boxtel-300x400-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-9650\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/jos-van-boxtel-300x400-1.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mindspring.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/jos-van-boxtel-300x400-1-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cYou CAN overcome fear of abandonment\u201d Related information Fear of commitment Hypnotherapy EMDR therapy NLP Practical information Therapy for fear of abandonment Being more relaxed in your relationship What is fear of abandonment? 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